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sexual abuse
Child sexual abuse had been reported up to 80,000 times a year, but the number of unreported instances is far greater because the children are afraid to tell anyone what has happened and the legal procedure for validating and episode is difficult. The problem should be identified, the abuse stopped, and the child should receive professional help. The long-term emotional and psychological damage of sexual abuse can be devastating to the child.

Child sexual abuse can take place within the family, by a parent, step-parent, sibling or other relative. It can also occur outside the home for example, by a friend, neighbor, child care person, teacher or stranger. When sexual abuse has occurred a child can develop a variety of distressing feelings, thoughts and behaviors.

No child is psychologically prepared to cope with repeated sexual stimulation. Even a two or three year old who cannot know that sexual activity is wrong will develop problems resulting from the inability to cope with the over-stimulation.

The child of five or older who knows and cares for the abuser becomes trapped between affection or loyalty for the person and the sense that the sexual activities are terribly wrong. If the child tries to break away from the sexual relationship the abuser may threaten the child with violence or loss of love. When sexual abuse occurs within the family the child may fear the anger, jealousy or shame of the other family members or be afraid the family will break up if the secret it told.

A child who is the victim of prolonged sexual abuse usually develops low self-esteem, a feeling of worthlessness and abnormal or distorted view of sex. The child may become withdrawn and mistrustful of adults and can become suicidal.

Some children who have been sexually abused have difficulty relating to others except on sexual terms. Some sexually abused children become child abusers or prostitutes or have other serious problems when they reach adulthood.

Often there are no obvious physical signs of child sexual abuse. Some signs can only be detected by a physician on physical examamination.

Sexually abused children may develop the following:
  • Unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature.
  • Sleep problems or nightmares.
  • Depression or withdrawal from friends or family.
  • Seductiveness.
  • Statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or fear that there is something wrong with them in the genial area.
  • Refusal to go to school.
  • Delinquency/conduct problems.
  • Secretiveness.
  • Aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies.
  • Unusual aggressiveness.
  • Suicidal behavior.

Child sexual abusers can make the child extremely fearful of telling, and only when a special effort has helped the child to feel safe, can the child talk freely. If a child says that he or she has been molested, parents should try to remain clam and reassure the child that what happened was not their fault. Parents should seek medical examination and psychiatric consultation.

Parents can prevent or lessen the chance of sexual abuse by:
  • Telling children that if someone tries to touch your body and do things that make you feel funny, say NO to that person and tell me right away.

  • Teaching children that respect does not mean blind obedience to adults and to authority. For example, don’t tell children to always do everything the teacher or baby-sitter tell you to do.

  • Encouraging professional prevention programs in the local school system.

Sexually abused children and their families need immediate professional evaluation and treatment. Child and adolescent psychiatrists can help abused children regain a sense of self-esteem, cope with feelings of guilt about abuse and begin the process of overcoming the trauma. Such treatment can help reduce the risk that the child will develop serious problems as an adult.



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